Tag: Life
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I saw her heal before my eyes
I am holding hands with my P5 self, walking home. “Do you feel better now that adult Belinda is with you?” “Yes” I could feel my facial muscles relax a bit more, and i’m no longer crying. Lorraine told me to tell P5 Belinda that I’ll listen to her no matter what, and that I’ll…
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We got on a boat…
A friend asked me what made me go to therapy yesterday… it was a cumulation of many things that happened – a series of unfortunate events, if you will, although that may be a blessing/fortune in itself 😀 A whole series of signs from the universe… since September if i be honest… several hospital trips…
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I went for therapy for the very first time
2 November 2025 I went for my first ever therapy session today, and it was hypnotherapy. But to limit it to just “hypnotherapy” would be a disservice to what I experienced. Lorraine does a lot of subconscious and energy work as well. The session started with little check-in on my state of the moment and…
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Things I’ve learned from my gap year
I’d started writing this post back in May/June 2019, but never got round to finishing it. But here goes ~ // As my gap year draws to a close (already ended haha), I would like to take some time to pen down my reflections and some important lessons I’ve learned, as these lessons will carry…
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happy baldiversary
A year ago today, I went to get my head shaven – I made a bald statement! It was for a hair4hope event that runs every year @ Vivocity. Honestly though, the idea of going bald first germinated in my head since my JC days, around 2012/13. At that time, we had the hair4hope event…
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becoming me (part ii: falling apart)
Morning hike up a mountain in Kathmandu, Nepal // Sep 2018 Hello world. I’m finally back with part ii of my story, you can read part I here if you haven’t already. The break after ‘A’ levels was a pivotal time in my life, for many of the things that happened then contributed significantly to…
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some updates / really, really homesick
I had meant to write a lot more than whatever I have done; I had grand plans for this blog, but the happenings on each trip has been so overwhelming, and I don’t feel like I have enough time nor space at home to really sit down and string all my thoughts into meaningful paragraphs.…
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homesick
(I had great plans for this blog, great promises of the great stories I would tell. But with great plans come great expectations and this subconscious need to be perfect. So there… a long hiatus from my previous unfinished series… stay tuned) Travelling sounds great (even glamorous); travelling often (and for a longer period of…
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goodbye and hello
Goodbye 2018, it has been a good ride. It has been a ride full of ups and downs – there were moments i felt my guts being twisted together and my heart being grasped in a tight fist, but also moments i was simply busking in happiness and gratitude. Through it all, I’m beyond thankful,…
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becoming me (part i: growing up)
Today, I would like to share the story of how I came to be “me”. That is to say, I probably was a very different person even just a year or two back. I also recognise the fact that we are ever-changing and will continue to grow and evolve along with time and the experiences…
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